DirtySurfaceWarning: Some Sexual Side Effects

This piece of my site is not a paid service and is not to be understood as professional sexual health advice. My primary training and adult professional experience as an educator is technical/creative (video, graphics, multimedia, visual art), NOT in sexual health, although I've been consistently involved in community-based sexual health initiatives and a co-creator of sexual health materials since my teens.

There are so many questions that nobody thinks to ask a smutmaker. Here's your chance. A few decades working in (the independent, low-budget, mostly queer side of) porn teaches a thing or two about intimacy, technology, desire, privacy, relationships, non-monogamy, kink, lube, technique, drugs, public personae vs personal behavior, sexual health, mental health in the context of sex, sexual communication, safer sex, consent, preference, income, labor, gender, feminism, gender relations, masculinity, identity, body image, and a host of related issues.

Drop me a line by email through the contact page here and I'll do my best to respond as soon as possible. I won't pretend to have all the answers all the time, but I'll probably be able to point you in the direction of a useful local resource or two, and I'll almost certainly have an opinion.